Finding Your People: Why It Matters to Journey With Parents Who Get It
- Amy Dalwood-Fairbanks
- Sep 28
- 4 min read
Today, I met up with a fellow widow for a coffee and a dog walk.
It was one of those meet-ups where the conversation just flows: no masks, no need to hold back, no pretending everything is fine when really, it’s anything but.
We both admitted our struggles and the deep loneliness that comes with loss. We talked about the hard moments, the confusing ones, and the times when it feels like the world has carried on spinning while you’re left standing still. There was no awkwardness, no judgment. Just understanding.
Because we’ve both walked similar paths, we didn’t need to explain or justify our feelings. We could share openly, and in doing so, we realised we’d felt many of the same emotions, faced similar challenges, and even stumbled across some of the same barriers along the way.
We also swapped tips, recommended organisations, and shared resources that had helped us. It felt like passing a torch between us, each of us shining a little more light on the other’s journey.
And it struck me how powerful that is: being with someone who truly gets it.
Parenting a Neurodivergent Child Can Feel Lonely Too
The same thing is true when you’re parenting a child (or children) who are neurodivergent or struggling in school.
So often, you find yourself surrounded by people who want to help but don’t really understand. You might feel like you have to explain every little thing, or worse, like you have to hide the full truth of what’s going on for fear of judgment.
It’s exhausting.
But when you connect with other parents who are living through something similar, everything shifts. You no longer feel like you’re shouting into the void. You can share openly, listen deeply, and know you are not alone.
That’s why I created the Magic Minds Parents’ Hub.
A Safe Space for Parents Who "Get It"
The Parents’ Hub is a free online community where you can find support, resources, and connection. It’s a place where you can:
✨ Be honest about what’s really happening — no masks, no judgment.
✨ Learn tools and techniques to help you co-regulate and connect with your child.
✨ Share wisdom and discover new strategies from other parents who truly understand.
✨ Access valuable resources, including monthly webinars and fresh hypnosis audios focused on the challenges you are facing.
To welcome you in, I’ve created a Calm Kit for Parents, packed with simple, powerful tools to help you stay calm and steady — because when you are calm, you can help your child feel safe and supported too.
Inside the Calm Kit, you’ll find:
🌟 Soothing audios for both parents and children
🌟 Practical resources to support emotional regulation
🌟 Quick, easy strategies for those tricky moments
“But Do I Really Need Another Group?”
You might be thinking:
“I’m already in a few online groups — what makes this one different?”
Here’s what you need to know:
💬 Other groups can feel overwhelming Many parenting or SEND Facebook groups are huge and fast-moving. Posts get lost, conversations can feel chaotic, and it’s easy to feel like just another number. The Parents’ Hub is designed to be a calmer, more nurturing space where you can actually connect and learn without the noise.
🌟 It’s free — but full of real value Sometimes “free” can sound like “light on content. ”That’s not the case here. From day one, you’ll have access to a growing library of resources, including:
The Calm Kit for Parents
The Back to School Kit
School Avoidance Support tools
A variety of soothing audios, with new ones added every month
A link to the weekly Magic Minds blog for fresh ideas and inspiration
These resources are there to help you and your child right now, without the overwhelm.
🤝 Will I be sold to in the group?
The simple answer: no hard selling here. You’ll never feel pressured to buy anything. As a valued member of the Hub, you will get early access to new services and special offers, but they’ll always be presented gently and respectfully, so you can choose what feels right for you and your family.
You Don’t Have to Do This Alone
Just like my coffee and dog walk today reminded me, the journey is lighter when you walk it alongside someone who gets it.
Whether you’re navigating school struggles, meltdowns, or the day-to-day overwhelm of parenting a neurodivergent child, there are others out there who truly understand — and we’re waiting to welcome you.
Come and join us inside the Magic Minds Parents’ Hub. It’s completely free to join, but packed with valuable content to help you be the best parent you can be for your child.
✨ Join now and grab your Calm Kit here:
Because together, we are calmer. Together, we are stronger. And together, we can make the journey a little easier.
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