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Why Telling Your Child to “Calm Down” Doesn’t Work (And What to Do Instead)
When your child is dysregulated, telling them to calm down won’t work.
Not because they’re not listening. Not because they’re being difficult.
But because they can’t access calm on their own in that moment.

Amy Dalwood-Fairbanks
2 days ago4 min read


Emotional Safety First: Why February Is the Month to Pause, Protect, and Rebuild
By the time February arrives, Christmas feels firmly in the past, but for many families, the strain it placed on already-stretched nervous systems is still very present.

Amy Dalwood-Fairbanks
Feb 24 min read


After Christmas Overwhelm: Why Neurodivergent Children Struggle and How Parents Can Support Recovery
For many families, Christmas doesn’t end neatly on Boxing Day.
Instead, the days that follow feel harder.
Routines unravel. Emotions run closer to the surface. Children who managed, just about, suddenly melt down, withdraw, refuse things they were coping with only days before.

Amy Dalwood-Fairbanks
Dec 30, 20253 min read


Cool, Calm, and Collected: A Self-Hypnosis Technique for Stressed Parents on Hot Summer Days
Hot weather and hot tempers? This gentle self-hypnosis technique helps stressed parents lower their internal temperature and restore calm, even on the hottest summer days. A quick and effective moment of cool, collected peace, just for you.

Amy Dalwood-Fairbanks
Jun 22, 20253 min read
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